Do you know why does the apple of your eye dislike you?From my personal point of view the fundamental problem is that you lock them in a box their freedom and some just grew apart because you don't spent time with him or her and never say i understand how your feel out of plain words it is unless you really know how your child feels never say no or never because that will start you child's bad behavior just tell you child the reason and make sure we understand instate of saying no or never you should say sorry I can't let you do that and tell them a good reason and make it up for them like ice-cream or something they like.
When they reach an age of about 14 that where they start to go out a lot don't say you can't just let them go and tell them to be careful and may be give them a tazer or pepper spray as defence take them to takwando, karate or something so that they can defence themselfs from rapist more importent if your child is a girl give them their on space never cane or beat your children for getting bad grades just help them with their study and simplify the the meaning u only beat the crap of of them if they watch porn and terrorize the park or join a gang(but be careful because some gang if u quit they will beat you up)teach them moral values at a young age teach them about nature and animals.
Never expose them to game and cartoon which will mess up their mind monitor their friends make sure all of them are 'clean' and not 'dirty' get them to love vegetables at a young age when your aboute 5-6 months pregnent eat a lot of DHA food like salmon and tuna because there when your baby or babies develop their brains.Don't get them food like fried chicken and fatty stuff or get them too much candy make sure them get a lot of exercise a family walk in the park or cycle is a great bonding activity once or twice a week.
To get them interested in books also needs to start at a early age like when your child is 3-4 years old teach to read story books with moral value like my Chinese+Malay friend who was never expose too all these things got number 1 in the whole Kemaman state his name is Aiman Chan He scored 7/7 A all above 93% but his English got a 91% but thats good but now he spend all his time on facbook and I think his grades are falling but well above 90% if you wan to find him go to Kijal the Awana Kijal buffet manager and don't hope to get a free pass to the buffet.He has a bright future unlike me who has a darker one but i won;t lose hope
Someday my novels will reach Australia and hope Ryanide will come a cross one of my books and will but and read it.(what am I thinking I am messing the whole thing up anyway back to Why does your children dislike you)Children are split into 3 categories Idiots who can't be help open-minded who are great friends and geniuses but some are lazy people others are almost perfect who can handle stuff on their own other like the idiots need guidence to become geniuses while open-minded don't care how old you are or what race you come from.
A child is like a flower or plant or what ever if you water it too little it become spoil if you water it just right it will live and bloom and give fruit sand spawn seeds in human ways it if you give your child too little attention he or she will feel lonely and take it all out on others if you give you child a lot of attention your child will grown up a happy kid and give you love and will help you out how ever it can.You must also take your time to listen to your child's problem and hardships in school do the best for your child and don't be like my parents my mother was very beautiful but love money my father has a foul temper and he is kinda narrow-minded when it come to being a parent when his business when down hill my mother say that he is seeing someone and she say a lot of bad things about my father behind his back but now my mother regret what she did and she became a monk some where in India
My father on the other hand has a limited knowledge and he say that I am stupid just because my memories sucks(truth is that i have brain damage because i fell more than ten time on my head and have bad memories but me being mentally strong manage to over come it but still have trouble memorizing stuff does he know what is the meaning of brusque ?Does he know the meaning of despot? Does he know the meaning of alacrity or the meaning of arcane?he does not know even one I am writing novel for goodness sake sell things and to the mindless gangsters(p.s. it is a must too be friends with them so they don't mess with you in school he is selfish and acts on his own on top of that he goes out with a fat malay bitch who nags like shit if they ever get married i will jump from the tower near my house and leave a note that says I died because of some fat bitch who is messing up my life.
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